answer:Sounds to me like you might partly be upset because, even though you didn’t like him, he rejected you. The fact he wanted to play dirty TOD suggests he may just have wanted to get laid or see naked girls. (Never far from our/men’s minds.) Thas why the kiss wasn’t interesting to him. I’m the future, perhaps try and avoid playing games that could have you kissing (or worse ) someone you have no interest in leading on. Kissing him or something like that must have crossed your mind as a possibility, if not a forgone conclusion. There’s only one reason straight guys would play TOD. It probably will lead to something sexual…. I don’t have enough information to offer more than this speculative answer I’m afraid. In addition, if you hang out with guys who try and touch you or other inappropriate behavior, don’t hang out with them.Carry mace at all times, and DON’T TRUST guys until you really know them. Often we’ll say whatever we think will get us in your pants….