answer:The most boundaries, currently, are in the shape of map boundaries. He lives 7,853 km away. As for when we are together, my BBE is very polite and nice and has excellent manners. He puts me to shame, I think. I think the only thing that sort of crosses the line sometimes is I feel he is too generous sometimes. I’m almost afraid to mention I’m thinking I need something because suddenly, he is sending it in the mail, or he comes with it his next visit. He spoils me (us.. both me and my son) so sometimes that feels awkward for me.