When I was little, my cousins were all going to be in a wedding for someone on the other side of the family. My mom and I were not technically invited, but she wanted to see everybody all dressed up, so she put me in a velvet dress with a matching scrunchie and we snuck in. I didn't really know what was going on, but I was just happy to be along for the ride. I didn't realize we weren't invited to that wedding until about 15 years later.