I'm a 31 year old woman. I had several relationships, but I can’t cum while making love. I don’t think it’s my partners ’fault in any way. I’ve been lucky enough to have penises of different sizes and shapes, we’ve tried many different poses, but they just don’t work. Not even if my partner or I caress my clit in the meantime. (Because I manage to have an orgasm by masturbating. Even then, I just lie on my back, rubbing my clit with my legs stretched, clenched.) My partner doesn't say, but I'm sure it bothers me that he "can't" satisfy me.