answer:I couldn't possibly go braless, as I am very curvy. It sounds to me like you need a proper fitting for a bra to ensure that you are wearing the right band and cup sizes. This has been addressed recently in the media, most notably by Stacey from What Not To Wear. They did a show on undergarments and she also discussed it on Oprah. Since those aired, I've seen more places offer fittings, especially high-end department stores. With all the variety in bra styles and materials these days, you should be able to find something that is comfortable, as well as cute and supportive. You may also be pushing up too much if you are able to go braless. Get a proper fitting, and invest in some quality bras.