That’s the thing: You DO care this much. So, I think you should go! Be sure to only go for yourself, who cares what your old classmates think or feel? But if you want to reconnect, revisit, then you should stop by. Your graduation status or marital status has no bearing on the fact that these people were a part of your life – probably one that has shaped who you are. And you don’t want to go on wondering, “What if I had gone….what if?