I have a reunion to attend next month, and my ex-best friend will be there. What's the best way to approach this?

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Ignore, Ignore, Ignore. When that doesn’t work, like she comes up and starts making small talk, be civil and cool toned. Then back to Ignore, Ignore, Ignore.

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