well, depends on my mood. Sometimes, the pride thing allows me to be a stubborn bastard. But of course, my judgment isn’t all it should be, and when I find out so-and-so didn’t call me because of some personal tragedy, then I feel bad. If they just forgot, well, I chalk it up to they don’t have their priorities lined up. Yeah, so sometimes I will make the call. The worst thing is when I get drunk on the occasional Saturday night and decide to go through my cell phone list and leave oddly hilarious drunken messages for people I haven’t talked to in months. they gotta love that!