Love is like what you said, unexplicable, cannot always be understood and somehow special. We might not know what we love in others as it may be alot of stuff, but when people are << why do you love me? >> they usually want some reassurance that the other is not just fooling around. For example, I have previously asked this question, when a guy once told me he loved me, and he had no reason wat so ever other than: you are pretty and hot! That way, i discovered he does not know who i am, how can he love me? therefore, he is just another desperate person or a player fooling around. Love might not be fully explicable, but some parts of it are.