Description : Do you believe that happiness comes from within and that you can't love someone else without loving yourself first?
Last Answer : Happiness is accomplished by action and outcome. It is not a gift. I have never understood the notion of “Loving Yourself”. It sounds sort of narcissistic to me. But self respect and self confidence are definite first cousins of happiness.
Description : If you fall in love with someone that you should not have, should you feel bad about the fact that you can't stop loving them?
Last Answer : It sounds like you don’t know this person well enough to know if he is married or not, so I’m not sure how you would know if you were in love. But to answer the question, the best thing to do, if you find he is married, is to stay away from him.
Description : Why when you love someone you can't have a dream about them?
Last Answer : You cannot force dreams. If so, no one would want to ever wake up.
Description : Why can't I find love?
Last Answer : Don’t look for it and it will find you.
Description : Why is it that I love what i can't have?
Last Answer : answer:Because you don't really want it. The big mistake that men make is that when they turn thirteen or fourteen, and all of a sudden they've reached puberty, they believe that they like women. Actually, ... 't mean that you like women any more at twenty-one than you did at ten. - Jules Feiffer
Description : "You can't love another until you love yourself." I think this cliche is bunk. What do you think?
Last Answer : People who don’t love themselves have trouble with relationships and then go to Fluther.com to tell everyone about it. I think that saying has truth. You can’t be in a healthy relationship without good self esteem.
Description : Can you answer this quote: When you can't be with the one you love, will you stay with the one that loves you?
Last Answer : Nah. Just ain’t the same. ‘sides, I don’t like leading people on like that. If you love me and I don’t love you, why make it worse for ya?
Description : Im still in love with my ex-girlfriend,I know I should try to get over her but can't what should I do?
Last Answer : stop worrying about it. You will get over her it just takes time and there’s little you can do to speed things up. One day you’ll just realise its happened. In the mean time hang out with your mates, meet some new people and have a bit of fun.
Description : Have you ever been eaten by aliens in love?
Last Answer : answer:@wundayatta, along with two aliens in love were smokin’ some funny stuff. They got the munchies and looked at yours truly for a snack. You are smoking some funny stuff right now, aren’t you?
Description : Is it possible to fall in love with someone on the web and does it ever work out?
Last Answer : answer:Yes to the first part (though I believe you can only know if it is real when you meet in person). As to the latter, I'm afraid I can't answer that. It will depend on many factors. ... live on the other side of the world from eachother - with immigration rules that's a hard one to overcome.
Description : Have you ever made a day all about someone you love just because?
Last Answer : All the time for my 9 year old daughter. We once spent a holiday 3 day weekend in Disneyland—personally, I would have rather stuck a hot poker in my eye, but we did it for my daughter’s birthday.
Description : Ever fallen in love with someone without feeling the "butterflies"?
Last Answer : While I might have had that feeling for the first month or two, it's long since gone. My relationship is butterfly-free, that's fine with me! I've read some literature that ... butterflies) is correlated with moving from the initial infatuation stage towards a long term partnering kind of love.
Description : Have you ever fell in love with someone you met on the internet and did it work?
Last Answer : Why yes it did! I met Kelly27 online. It is totally possible.
Description : Is a year too soon to tell a guy you've been dating " I Love You"?
Last Answer : You need to ask him how he feels about you and where you stand in his life. Does his girlfriend know about you? Are you dating him or just friends with benefits?
Description : Have you been blind-sided by love and passion?
Last Answer : I fell in love with my husband the first night I met him. And I had just escaped from a long-term relationship. I was worried it was a rebound, but it just got stronger and ... for two weeks he informally proposed. You could call that completely blindsided. We just celebrated our 11th anniversary.
Description : Should you love someone who is not financially stable?
Last Answer : Is that person stuck in that job forever? Can you support yourself (and potentially a family)? Is the person in the lower paying job because it's a non-profit that benefits the community? ... using this as the sole point of judgement is probably unwise, especially if the person is relatively young.
Description : Do you think that, in order to love someone, you have to know everything about that person?
Last Answer : Nobody can know everything about anyone. It’s true that knowledge enhances love by deepening relationships, but we need to love despite the gaps.
Description : Which situation is tougher to deal with out of someone saying they love you, or you saying it to another?
Last Answer : Both the same. Same level of disappointment/discomfort.
Description : Is it true love or fake to love someone up to the point of blank then you no longer love them, but despise them?
Last Answer : A woman scorn. ... is frightening. Very painful.
Description : Name an example of WHEN it would be best to NOT tell someone, "I'm in love with you!"?
Last Answer : On his or her wedding day or when you’re in a Confessional.
Description : How do you show someone love?
Last Answer : A little lurve is the best I can do from here, sweetheart.
Description : How do you know for sure when you love someone?
Last Answer : I knew that I truly loved my first ex girlfriend long after we had broken up when I realized that I didn’t care about whether or not she was with me anymore, but that she was truly happy with her life now, and doing ok.
Description : How can you tell you LOVE someone versus IN LOVE?
Last Answer : For me, it's always made clear by time apart from that person. If I can forget about them and let my dick guide me into chasing others, then it's probably just hormonal/lust. If I consistently feel an unwavering ... heart that tells me, don't do it, then I know at least part of me is in love.
Description : If someone falls in love with you emotionally, and you want them really bad physically, how do you handle the situation?
Last Answer : Imadethisupwithnoforethought Can you elaborate on the situation?
Description : Could you be in love with someone whom you are not attracted to? Is it possible?
Last Answer : Hardly sounds fun that way… ;)
Description : How well would you fare if you had to let the love of your life go in a If you love someone set them free situation?
Last Answer : I was in that situation and, whilst I let him go, it broke my heart to do so. In fact it very nearly finished me off completely. I don’t know how I survived it but I do know that I probably couldn’t survive it again. The good news is he came back!
Description : What are some Powerful, Easy, Fun and Cheap ways to show someone you love them?
Last Answer : Pack a picnic lunch and rent a bicycle built for two and go for a nice long bike ride together. ;)
Description : How do I show love for someone without being romantic?
Last Answer : Be a friend and be consistent. Don’t crowd her or stalk her but be available when she needs a friend.
Description : How long does it take to get over someone that you love?
Last Answer : It’s an individual process, and it depends on a lot of things, such as how long you have been together, how close you were, etc. Stay busy with friends, and let time do the trick. Good luck to you!!
Description : Can you hate someone and love them at the same time?
Last Answer : Only if you marry them.
Description : What is the difference between loving someone and being in love?
Last Answer : Check out the Greek ideas of Eros and Agape. Easy to Google. I’m going to bed.
Description : How do you know if you are in love with someone?
Last Answer : butterflies.
Description : How do you know if you're in love with someone?
Last Answer : answer:My mom says “Love is more than feeling, it’s doing.” Your actions of love attest to “true love” much more than fleeting feelings ever will. I love my mom.
Description : What should ou do when your in love with someone but their just not in love with you?
Last Answer : answer:Move on. It takes two to tango, or better yet, to love. Love is a partnership. They may eventually come around, but no need in sitting around feeling bad about it now. Get out and do your best to move on. You may find someone better. Good luck. I hope this helps. I know how rough it can be.
Description : How do you show someone you love (in love) them? How can you prove it?
Last Answer : To show someone you love them you just have to consistently treat them in a loving manner. Proof, however, is really only something that cones with time.
Description : How can you tell if someone means it when they say "i love you"?
Last Answer : It's not in the words themselves, it's in their actions. You can tell if someone loves you by what they do and how they act. If words are all you've got, say like in a long distance relationship where ... with them, then just listen to how they say it. You shold be able to tell by those two things.
Description : Can you want someone to love you without really loving them?
Last Answer : I think it’s entirely possible. That’s all I have to say on it for now, your motives can be whatever you want them to be, but I think wanting love without loving is entirely possible.
Description : Do you believe you can be in love with someone on a platonic level?
Last Answer : answer:Love is a many sided thing. I love all of my friends. I wouldn’t bed them… but I do love them. “In love” seems (to me) to be temporary sounding. I don’t like it.
Description : Is it possible to be in love with someone you've only seen?
Last Answer : infatuation and the words in love are just that
Description : Would you die for someone you love?
Last Answer : Let’s see, I have to kill sccrowell or I get killed? Without a doubt, kill me. I could never kill someone I love under any circumstance.
Description : What would you do when the love of your life loves someone else ?
Last Answer : She’s openly telling you that she’s falling for someone else?? And this someone else is a married man?? Run!......this girl does not care about your feelings and she’s got a pretty messed up idea about what the perfect guy is. Be smart and get out while you can!
Description : Is it better to be with someone you can live with or someone you cant live with out?
Last Answer : i fear being in a situation where i find someone i cant live without. thats an unhealthy amount of emotional dependency. so yeah, better to live with someone you can live with, in my opinion.
Description : Do women ever love men as much as men love them?
Last Answer : Silliness. Of course they do.
Description : Do you ever just love your s/o so much, you want to shout it from the roof tops?
Last Answer : No. I wish I had, but even when I was madly in love and just married, I never went to that extreme. But more power to you. Enjoy it.
Description : Have you ever given up something for the sake of love?
Last Answer : Only with my pets, when I have to sacrifice my sorrow and euthanize them in their hour of need. I have sacrificed lots of cash to make my daughter happy too. lol I don't believe in sacrificing for ... life but on a personal or emotional level, no. I don't think being a martyr brings happiness. haha
Description : Have you ever fallen in love with another while being married?
Last Answer : No, not even close. I’ve certainly been physically attracted to other people, but have never been emotionally caught up in that.
Description : Have you ever contemplated an action with a selfish benefit but that would hurt others you love?
Last Answer : Contemplated?? I have done it. One man’s selfishness is another man’s self-preservation.
Description : Will a man ever love me?
Last Answer : Hi Ellen. I know several guys who prefer rounder women to the slimmer ones. Don’t despair, they are out there!
Description : What is the craziest thing you have ever done when in love?
Last Answer : It involves Sinead O’Connor and me singing loudly in a Honda Civic. Four other people were in the car. I’m still teased about it.
Description : Have you ever experienced unconditional love?
Last Answer : My son… but he’s only two…I bet he won’t feel that way when he’s 18! :-( I’m still searching for my own unconditional self-love…