Im still in love with my ex-girlfriend,I know I should try to get over her but can't what should I do?

Im still in love with my ex-girlfriend,I know I should try to get over her but can't what should I do?
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stop worrying about it. You will get over her it just takes time and there’s little you can do to speed things up. One day you’ll just realise its happened. In the mean time hang out with your mates, meet some new people and have a bit of fun.
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