Have you ever felt lost inside yourself?

Have you ever felt lost inside yourself?
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answer:I sympathize with your plight. Getting a job – heck just having a plan for a job – helped to straighten me out a bit. Do you still know who you want to be? If you do, you have a goal. Make a plan, starting from the goal, working backwards to where you are now. Then execute the plan. Reality has a way of catching up at the worst times, so it’s better to throw yourself in at the get-go. Things are bound to be rocky; that’s simply inevitable when you’ve got as many variable factors in life as we do these days. That’s when you reach out to your support networks.
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