How do you deal with people who give you silent treatment?

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I let them be silent. There’s too much noise as it is. When someone decides to stop running their mouth and just silently suffer, I let them be. They have stuff to work out, and I’d like to give them the space to do that. Helps them. Saves my ears from their nonsense. Win win.

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