What would you do if you loved 2 people at the same time?

What would you do if you loved 2 people at the same time?
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I guess it depends on who you love. I am absolutely 100% in love with my partner of eight years. And I wouldn’t leave him if someone else loved me. I would be happy and a bit guilty that someone could feel that for me but there would be no desire to pursue it. I’m not sure if that helps your situation but who do you feel stronger for? Leaving someone for a “what if” would probably be a poor idea. Leaving someone to follow your heart or passion is another story.
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