answer:You can’t “make” them be friends. About the only things you can do: a) create an environment which is friendly and welcoming, where – if they choose to be friends, they will feel positive about you (her) and not be turned off or rejected. You’re not going to change peoples’ minds by force, but you can make the atmosphere so that they feel comfortable about approaching and doing things. It’s the beginning of a process that leads, with luck, to friendship. None of this happens over night, and impatience will work against her.