How can I support a bipolar friend who may be decompensating?

How can I support a bipolar friend who may be decompensating?
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janbb Not bipolar that I know of. I’d let them know you’re there for them and ask if they want to talk. Give them an opening and hope they come to you. If I’m offbase I sure hope someone will tell me.
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