How can I do something romantic for my girlfriend? (see details)

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answer:Include in your letters to her a kind of game. I imagine something like taking an extreme close up of an object you are both familiar with and asking her to guess what it is. You would reveal it at the appropriate time. You may have to take more than one picture of it from different angles or showing different close ups of different sections. The object of the pictures could be a leaf in a park you both enjoyed. Or a sculpture at a museum you both visited. Or a dish of some food you both like.

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