I found out my soon-to-be ex-husband's married girlfriend lied about filing for divorce. Should I tell him?

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No, don’t tell him. He either already knows, since he hasn’t moved in with her, or will find out eventually. If he finds out on his own, he can’t blame you for being the “bearer of bad news”. Welcome to Fluther and good luck.

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