answer:I wouldn’t expect my 16 year old to buy her own sneakers and gym shorts…that’s an expense we, as her parents, would cover. However, it depends on what your parents’ money situation is. If they are strapped, and that $300 gift makes it impossible (or very hard) for them to afford your basic school necessities, then I can see asking you to use that money (for now). Also, welcome to Fluther!