answer:Really? There’s a word for that? I didn’t know. How do you know you have it? I’ve never had a kind thing to say about how I look. There are some very rare secret moments when I look in the mirror and I might be pleased by what I see, but mostly I’m imagining what others would think, and for most of my life, I thought people would look at me and not think I’m attractive. How can you know, anyway? I mean, I imagine that attractive people have others coming up to them all the time to compliment them. They are having people attracted to them just because of their looks. No one ever told me they liked the way my face or body looked. The best I’ve heard is that I don’‘t look so bad. This is usually in response to me apologizing for how I look. But since I’ve always felt I had nothing in the looks department, it never really mattered. I could still be social. I just assumed people would like me for other reasons than being good looking. I figured I started at a disadvantage, but that wasn’t the end of the story. So whether or not I am unattractive, I don’t think I have a problem due to looks. I can overcome any problem, just by being smart enough or funny enough or something like that. There are other ways to earn other people’s interest. But it’s probably different for men compared to women. Men don’t have to be good looking. No one expects us to be good looking. Most men look pretty feeble compared to most women. So think about that. Whenever you think you look bad, just think how much worse it would be if you were a man!