Ways to stop getting nervous around a crush?

Ways to stop getting nervous around a crush?
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Hallucination Welcome to fluther. You figure out the answer to that one and you may get a Nobel Prize. I just try to be upfront and admit the nerves. I use to try to bluff my way through it. But it’s easier to be completely honest if you think you can trust the other person. If you think you have doubts about their trust play it cool. Best I’ve figured out.
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