answer:Just take the one you want: it sounds like you want the job on campus. Overall, it sounds like you don’t want to work too hard (I am not saying that as a criticism) and the university job sounds like you will be more comfortable and it wil be less hassle. You are trying to please everyone else too much, I can hear the struggle in your words of how your family influences you. I think it is good to listen to their opinions, but in the end, when you make a decision, let it be yours, and don’t worry about pleasing them, please yourself. I would not rely on some stereotype about politicians not working much for how much work you will be expected to do. Also, don’t let buying the clothes deter you, because you will need some interview and work clothes soon anyway. I know you said you have some. The typical rule in conservative offices is skirt doesn’t need a jacket, slacks do. You can check the detail of that if you decide to take that job. Maybe you can just buy two skirts and you’re set. And, don’t let a couple bucks an hour difference influence this choice.