Husband and wife decide to have children late to finish school ? I am a female doctor. I am currently doing an internship. As a student, I got married. But I haven't had a child yet. I am interested in serving Muslim women through my studies - InshaAllah. (Internally) My job is to do various medical tests for men and women and give them treatment. In this situation, my husband and I want to have children late ; So that I can finish this high quality internship (i.e. become a graduate). This delay is only until the study.

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Alhamdulillah. There is no objection if the spouses agree or agree to use any particular contraceptive for a specified period ; They have this right. Although we do not generally consider birth control to be justified. The proof is the word of Allah: "We provide for them and for you." If they want to have a baby late because of something so important, then there is no obstacle. I would advise this woman not to treat men ; If this treatment is associated with satar or with any internal organ or it involves touching the man and opening the male satar. However, if a small thing like eye treatment or ear treatment or dental treatment will probably be justified. God knows best.

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