I agree, the deeper the wound the harder to recover, if at all. When we have these issues, obviously you have to look at yourself. We must have self esteem and insecurity issues to let these people hurt us in the way we do. I often wonder how I would behave if I were tougher, if my heart was harder. But sometimes I see people around me who are tougher, and they seem to be insensitive souls with no love in their hearts. I don’t want to be like that.