Why do people say they are open-minded?

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It’s just a saying like “I’m outgoing”. It’s up to you to decide who really is open minded, and it also depends on what you want them to be open minded about. If you’re trying to get people to see the other side to ruthlessly murdering kittens, they’re not going to be open minded.

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