What would you think of if your Sister says that you have “offended” her but won’t say why?

What would you think of if your Sister says that you have “offended” her but won’t say why?
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It sounds like she is ignoring your committment to your club and thinks you should be at the wedding. $12k is a pretty hefty wedding gift, so she sounds a little unreasonable. But the sibling dynamic is foreign to me, maybe call and talk it out?
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