Description : We all still have a lot to learn about things in this life, so why can't the average person admit that about their driving skills?
Last Answer : I drive a golfball better than some people drive their vee-hick-erls. That’s okay though, so long as they stay the fuck away from me.
Description : Do people make us feel things or are we always responsible for how we feel?
Last Answer : I think it's a combination of the two. If I'm feeling low I can talk to a friend and they'll cheer me up. Did I become happier all on my own? On the flipside, you can always gain control of ... to make me mad at all. Our surroundings always make us feel, but we can control how strong the feeling is.
Description : What is a scientific reason of why we have this insatiable penchant for things that look so cute?
Last Answer : If mothers didn’t fall passionately and unconditionally in love w. their infants, they (moms) would be tempted to dash baby’s head against a wall at times. That’s my scientific theory, right until proven wrong.
Description : Is it instinct for men and women to like shiny things?
Last Answer : Instinct? All I can say is I don’t like diamonds, make whatever conclusion you like out of that. And I’m not overly fussed about other gemstones. I do like onyx, not shiny.
Description : Why do graduates like to talk with authority about things they know jack about?
Last Answer : answer:You haven't really provided enough information to answer your question. What were the graduates talking about with authority that they knew nothing about? A lot of your post appears to ... help them develop into more skilled and knowledgeable workers. How recently had these people graduated?
Description : Do you ever feel like it is too much effort to care about things?
Last Answer : answer:Sometimes yes. I don’t always try to snap out of it. If I get to the point where I don’t care it is probably already past the point of no return.
Description : Are the things people routinely say to lessen grief actually making it worse?
Last Answer : I agree with you. Saying things like “She’s in a better place now” presupposes that the mourner believes in an after-life which may or may not be true. I think quiet empathy without pushing one’s beliefs is much more helpful.
Description : Why do you recommend things to other people?
Last Answer : I want others to enjoy something that I enjoyed whether it be food, a restaurant, a book or a movie.
Description : Still grieving after more than 35 years. How are these things dealt with?
Last Answer : answer:Wow. I think that you need to deal with this to move forward with your life. It is really not about losing your girlfriend. It is about you. First love is always poignant and especially ... you peace and the ability to live in the moment not dwell on something 35 years in the past.
Description : What are some things you should never tease someone about?
Last Answer : Anything to do with looks is out of bounds for teasing. Criticism maybe, if one is close and they fail to care for them selves. But teasing, never.
Description : Do you often say things you later on wish you hadn't?
Last Answer : Not “often.” It’s a painful lesson to learn, and I’ve learned it.
Description : What are things and occurrences that mesmerize you?
Last Answer : reading
Description : Why do some men have to make a big deal out of every day things?
Last Answer : Why do some women have to make a big deal out of every day things?
Description : Why would your friend secretly write down things you say?
Last Answer : answer:Is this hypothetical or are you describing a real-life scenario? In either case. how would you know if someone is doing that if he is writing secretly? In an earlier question you mentioned that you ... at the moment. If this person is bugging you, carry on with the plan of making new friends.
Description : Why do schizophrenics hallucinate bad/scary things? Why can't they hallucinate nice/fun things?
Last Answer : That’s an amazing question. I wonder if anyone has researched that. You’re right though. I think some people must hallucinate good things, but they probably don’t seek treatment or get misdiagnosed.
Description : What kinds of things do you beat yourself up for?
Last Answer : answer:I am the complete opposite. I rarely self criticize. I accept that we ( I ) all of us, are works in progress and as long as I am not mistreating others, the rest is all small ... overwhelm more demure types of personalities. The world is not always open to a female George Carlin type. lol
Description : What kinds of things did you or people you know want to see a therapist about?
Last Answer : I had a post partum depression that I didn't want. I learned that I subconsciously resented the fact that, at age 9 or so, I took my mother coffee in bed so she wouldn't be in a bad mood when I ... my mother, but I didn't need her any more either and I went to lunch, or whatever it was, instead.
Description : Why do things bother us the way they do?
Last Answer : Dissonance. We don’t deal well with it.
Description : Where do some religious people get the notion that they know things about their god?
Last Answer : They either get it from their respective holy books and/or cultural beliefs. The holy books go a long way in explaining God’s motives/reasons for certain things sometimes so it’s not particularly surprising when people say that.
Description : What things do you forget?
Last Answer : I never lose stuff, but that’s because I’m well organized. I forget just about everything else, though. People, places I’ve been, things I’ve done, you name it. I have a terrible memory.
Description : If happiness can be (according to some ways of thinking) independent of all things, and internal. If one attains it, how would it affect his or her behavior in the world?
Last Answer : see As A Man Thinketh
Description : Do you assume things about people at first glance?
Last Answer : I try to never make snap assumptions/judgements about anyone, BUT..I do notice ones overall posture, expression, presentation and can tell in an instant the basic state of their energy/self esteem.
Description : A couple of things that calm you right down during high stress would be..?
Last Answer : I seldom get that stressed anymore. When I was younger, running would take care of it.
Description : How do you manage to get things done when you're lacking motivation?
Last Answer : I say to myself that my GPA depends on it
Description : Why is it so easy for me to throw in the towel when I have a smidge of doubt that things will work out?
Last Answer : answer:Some researchers think this kind of behavior is based upon fear of failure. If you don't attempt something, you cannot fail, and can imagine with part of your mind that if only you ... behavioral therapy is very well suited to deal with this sort of issue in highly-directed brief counseling.
Description : What are some good things to look for when evaluating a psychology method, design and statistics?
Last Answer : Make sure that Type I and Type II statistical error can be accounted for. Also, if multiple statistical tests are being done, consider adjusting for multiple comparisons (e.g. Bonferroni adjustment).
Description : Do you have things that have weighed on your mind for years and years?
Last Answer : yes. regrets for a profoundly bad decision that was life-affecting [and also affected my opinion of myself] and struggles to chart a new course.
Description : What are some things I should do to get my mind off of something?
Last Answer : Maybe take a trip to a museum with some friends. Visit a park and have a relaxing lunch. Do some writing or painting. Spend all day baking cupcakes and muffins. Do some gardening outside. There’s lots of things you can do, but those are just a few.
Description : Does anyone else smell things that aren't really there..?
Last Answer : All the time. But who says it’s not there? Just because others cannot smell it doesn’t mean it’s all in your head. Yep. That’s what I tell myself.
Description : I come into contact with young adults and teens on line and they take things Very literally, is it just my impression?
Last Answer : I’m curious to hear an example of this. I’m a young adult (18) and I’ve been on Q&A sites since I was 14 and I have been accused of taking things “too literally” before. But I can’t seem to come up with an example. :) What’s an example that you’ve seen of this?
Description : What kinds of everyday things do you do that put you in a trance state?
Last Answer : I don't really ever do it on purpose, but listening to classical music like Shostakovich's symphonies or something along those lines can put me in a bit of trance. I certainly don't mind it, ... a photo on Photoshop. Even reading about certain things on Wikipedia, such as languages, can do this.
Description : When did bat shit become the benchmark of all things crazy?
Last Answer : Guano! There are diseases you can contract from bat guano that can give the appearance of insanity, like rabies. Apparently, it came from Bats in the belfry! I’ve heard both explanations.
Description : Do you control how you feel or do people make you feel things?
Last Answer : It’s a bit of a combination. People may push your button, but, unlike an elevator, you have the power to refrain from going to the floor.
Description : What are the things about your past or your personality that you tend not to tell people?
Last Answer : I’d have to get to know you better to tell you that!
Description : Why do you remember (or forget) how to do certain things?
Last Answer : In terms of human behavior (animal behavior) and survival skills, we have a combination of kinds of memory that allow us to remember how to do certain activities, some being as simple as walking and ... , and social or observational learning. Let me know if you'd like to learn more about those!
Description : Why am I subconsciously attracted to things that are green?
Last Answer : /me points at your username.
Description : If you have a list of things that need to be done, do you tend to tackle the big (perhaps, more difficult) ones first and get them out of the way or do you start with simple (smaller) tasks/goals?
Last Answer : I had a boss once who was fond of saying “do first what you dread most.” That is the method I always try to use.
Description : Have you ever left the imaginary credit cards or other fake things in your wallet after purchasing one?
Last Answer : Why bother trying to make people think im something im not?
Description : What are we to make of people like Joseph Smith and L Ron Hubbard?
Last Answer : answer:Smith had a history of arrests for fraud. His wife left him over the golden tablet nonsense, if I remember correctly. I believe she also threw the first copy of his book in the ... Smith was illiterate). Hubbard was openly quoted as stating he was starting a religion for the money racket.
Description : Does anyone know what happened to psychoneuroimmunology, and why we don't hear so much about it these days?
Last Answer : There is an active research center for psychoneuroimmunology where I work. I don't think it has gone anywhere. If you look at the pubmed timeline, it seems to have been well-studied in ... with a larger resurgence in recent years: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/?term=psychoneuroimmunology&sort=date
Description : Should we try and understand a mass killer's mindset?
Last Answer : Yes we should. My idea is revenge for being given a raw deal in school, dating , work ?
Description : Why does love lose its wonder as we get older (or does it)?
Last Answer : We get older. We have seen more and experienced more. Everything – not just love – is something we have done before. Call it worn down, call it jaded, we’ve seen it all before and it isn’t as exciting.
Description : If it was 1950 right now, what sort of questions would we see on ask-public?
Last Answer : ”Now they are trying to give N***** the same rights as whites! Are we living in the end times?”
Description : Why do we mirror others' feelings?
Last Answer : You don’t think empathy a positive trait? My friend’s kid dies and I shouldn’t be sad about it? Are you asking why we pretend to be sad when we don’t care? The answer to that one is that it is expected, as you said, “social glue.”
Description : Do we have a winner?
Last Answer : Are you referring to the self pleasuring driver? I don’t think you had to worry about him spreading his seed.
Description : Why do you think time seems to go faster as we get older?
Last Answer : Time is relative and static but at this stage of life it seems like someone hit the fast forward button.
Description : Is there an evolutionary explanation for why we feel anger?
Last Answer : Increases testosterone, heightens senses and improves reaction time, and dulls physical pain. Few other things I can’t recall, but it’s a useful emotion that helped when we needed to fend for our lives.
Description : How can we change which trades can apprentice?
Last Answer : An apprenticeship implies that you won’t be paid. Your payment, as it were, is learning the trade.
Description : Do you think we truly have choice?
Last Answer : They like to let us believe we have a choice,but I think that is an illusion.
Description : When we are very reactive to certain people, does it say more about us or them?
Last Answer : I agree, the deeper the wound the harder to recover, if at all. When we have these issues, obviously you have to look at yourself. We must have self esteem and insecurity issues to let these people hurt ... seem to be insensitive souls with no love in their hearts. I don't want to be like that.