answer:You say you won’t break up with him, but it drives you crazy. So it is an issue you have to come to terms with in some way or another. You need to use your words that it bothers you, and then suggest some home econ classes for him; maybe through the local junior college, or the local high school night school, or maybe through the recreation department. But get him some cooking classes. And then work with him on how he should clean; maybe a Saturday a month for a lesson on a specific room or area, June can be bathrooms, July is the kitchen sink and counters. August the refrigerator and stove.