Can a person be really and truly benevolent, kind and giving yet on the flip side spiteful, hate-filled and vindictive?

Can a person be really and truly benevolent, kind and giving yet on the flip side spiteful, hate-filled and vindictive?
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answer:Humans are more complicated than we can even imagine. @ZEPHYRA: “The excuse? “You have to forgive me, I am in poor health and cannot handle my anger.”” Excuse may not be the most helpful word here. What about “explanation”. It doesn’t mean you want to be around someone like this. But it may help to understand.
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