What do you call the tactic or behavior when someone makes a vague accusation along with a statement like "and yes, you do know what I'm talking about" when you have no clue what they're referring to, and they won't tell you?

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Could you have received the text accidentally? Maybe it was a misfire? But I have no idea what that would be called.

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