Which is easier to raise a son or daughter?

Which is easier to raise a son or daughter?
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There is no answer here, way too many variables, every parent & child is different. I have a son & a daughter & both were & still are a delight to bring up, i’d only say that any future boyfriend of my daughter better be prepared for daddy’s scrutiny.
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