answer:I would discuss it with his mother and I would not have him in my house again. As for things that were taken from me, (few and far between), I think of them but feel anger does no good so I try to let go, mentally, when I think of them. I had three gold rings that disappeared and can only be attributed to being taken by the cleaning lady, and although it bothers me, by the time I discovered it, there was nothing I could do about it so I try to let it go when the thought pops into my head.