answer:By accepting that: 1. People are asses, or at least some people are. Most of these asses aren’t worth spending energy on. 2. There is no use in getting offended about every single thing ever. Or rather, there is no use in getting offended at all. 3. Your shit does not smell like lavender, but stinks equally as everyone else’s, perhaps even worse. When you realise you are not as important as you wish you were and get off your high horse, tolerating others becomes much easier.