Does expressing hatred have a sort cathartic effect on the spirit?

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I don’t hate. Hate, I feel, eats away from the hater’s own heart. And doesn’t, necessarily, do much to the person hated. If it ever rears its head, one day, for whatever reason, I’ll see what I’ll do with it then. But I don’t like the concept.

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