Can I get a group hug? (Details)

Can I get a group hug? (Details)
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I just hooked up with a new girl. Thought she was awesome. Turns out, she’s got a lot of problems. I was really happy at first, but now it sucks. I got a new job. At a great place. Problem is, that new girl is a manager. I received news last night that my new job offer was rescinded. No reason given… So. I thought I found the girl of my dreams, and lost her quickly. Thought I found the job of my dreams, and lost it quickly. I’m fucking bummed out. I feel stupid. I wish I had made better decisions, but I thought she was different. I wouldn’t have got with her, if I knew who she really was, and what it could have meant to my new career. I’m such a fuck up. I think I’m only attracted to crazy/terrible women. Now that may have cost me a great job, that would have really improved my life. Just venting, I guess. Sorry….
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