Need motivation and advice?

Need motivation and advice?
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You often become what you see yourself becoming; so, I strongly suggest that you replace the “pathetic loser” with a person of character who is strong & self confident!!! That part I cannot give you as you have to figure it out for yourself. BTW…WELCOME TO FLUTHER!!!
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