Why won't my narcissist husband get our divorce when he hates me very much?

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He doesn't have a new supply source that he can call a sure dealyet. When he does he will leave. But you'll know it's comingbecause he will be disgusted with you over nothing things. He hadto see you as the most horrible woman on the planet. He getssympathy that way from the new supply and that way she'll feelguilty if she doesn't let him invade in her space when suddenly toher he can no longer tolerate your constant put downs, abusingthem, and all your horrible nasty habits. ( they always portray theinnocent victim)Be aware though that your husband isn't just sitting idletapping his fingers. He is trolling for new supply at AA meetings,the grocery store, at his job if he has one, your child's school,your friends even. The other thing is trust nothing he tells you.Start looking for hidden accounts. Run a credit report on both ofyou. Fix what's wrong with yours. Know your husband will sabotageyour finances and do shady things well before walking out. He willbe completely set up when he walks but he will tell you he isn'tworking. He will tell you he isn't eating he has no money. He willwant you to think he is hungry just like you are. In fact he eatsout often and at nice restaurants. Does he walk your dog? Oftenthese serial cheaters will have some booty call near by to soothethem when things get heated up between you two. In other words ifyou dare ask him a question that requires him to answer. Anytimeyou put him on the spot he will go walk the dog. DO NOT what everyou do LET ON YOU ARE ON TO HIM. He will deny anything is going on.He will call you crazy and make you not trust your GUT. Trust yourGUT TOTALLY. Your gut will not fail you if you are with open eyesand the best way to convince yourself is a totally hidden journalof each day what you did what he did. What he said what was goingon at time. Who was around. If he went somewhere write it down.Time gone.write down what he told you about being gone. What youwere doing who you with. Any strange things. All of it. In time youwill start to see what's going on. You'll catch him in a lot oflies. But don't tell him you just caught him. Write it down. Thenplan a trip to your moms. Wrote mom a handwritten letter tellingher not to blow it that you using seeing her to catch your husband.Remember your cell phone your calls pictures texts are not private.Many men like your husband know exactly where their wives are atall times. They bug their wives phones with spyware. They gps theirwives cars. Have a friend pick you up and actually drop you atairport or train station but leave your phone at home. Rent a cheapcar. Stop at Walmart for throw away phone. One woman I talked tothrew her phone in someone's trunk when they not looking. Knowingthey driving to Oregon. She actually caught her husband with hismale lover in their bedroom but snapped pics and left to vomit.Only to return in evening to see her best friend show up at herhouse and kissing on her husband. She couldn't stand it and knockedon door. No one answered so she called 911 and said she heard awoman scream and gunshots and gave her address. She also said thatthe man who lives at the address is a small time meth dealer. Whilecops had them both outside in front yard as other officerssearching the house the wife wandered onto the lawn and snapped aphoto she plastered on Facebook and the cheater website. Believe mehe is stashing money away. Start getting cash back every time it'soffered to you. Be sly about all that you are doing. These men canget violent when they realize their mask has slipped and you knowwhat he is doing.

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