Ive been married for more than 3yrs and my husband hasnt ever worked nor wants to work, should i divorce him or how do i get him to find a job?

Ive been married for more than 3yrs and my husband hasnt ever worked nor wants to work, should i divorce him or how do i get him to find a job?
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You are the only one who can answer that question. I personally would get rid of his butt and go one with my life. Why is he going to college if he says he can’t get a job?
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