To me i think it is a toxic relationship, because that is not the way a mother and a daughter should interact with each other. A mother's relationship with a child is a special one especially when it is a daughter, that is a bond that is supposed to be very tight, unfortunately yours is not. Your mother seems to be having issues with you that could have been triggered maybe by a past that she would rather forget. If you are close to yoir mother you should be free enough to talk to her at anytime about anything. Yes you can resolve this whole issue by talking to each other. Communication is key, ask her questions like why she gets so agitated with you even when you have not done anything wrong. Ask about how you came about, her relationship with your dad, how was it, were they in good terms or not. Those questions will enable you to know what makes her act the way she does towards you. Do not leave the house until you talk to her it will resolve alot of things all the best.