Is i really rude to try and make Friday night dinner plans when it is Friday at 1:30?

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answer:nope…why would it be rude? unless you you’re talking about 1:30 am on a Friday…that would be rude to wake someone up at 1:30am to make dinner plans. it’s not really rude as much as it could be inconvenient. although, i usually don’t make my dinner plans until I leave work on a friday

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