What should a woman consider before asking her parents or best friend to be in the delivery room when the baby is born?

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answer:This is a very personal decision that would be a big enthusiastic yes for some and an “ewww, no” for others. I think you should think about how you feel when you experience pain or illness. Do you find the presence of those people you are considering inviting to be in the birthing room comforting or would you rather be alone to deal with it? What are your personal feelings about having a chance to bond as a nuclear family before adding others such as family of origin or friends? This is a special event unmatched in your lives as a couple. Would the people you are considering honor your boundaries around that?

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