answer:While I’m not sure about resources in NYS, I know first-hand that there are regional services in California that specialize in providing social services and healthcare assistance for children diagnosed with ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder). If your ‘little friend’ has not been diagnosed, he most certainly needs to be evaluated by a certified healthcare professional so it can be documented-that is the first step. From there much research can be done that takes into account all of the services and resources out there-from medical, psychological, biomedical (esp. non-traditional nutritional supplements), and to learn about what is covered and not covered by insurance and by the state. There are many resources to suggest, but for starters, there is a site that my wife and I used as a starting point that seems to touch on all the areas you described: Talk About Curing Autism (TACA):
http://www.talkaboutcuringautism.org As for more general information about the spectrum of disorders, you can also research DAN (Defeat Autism Now) campaign at the Autism Research Institute:
http://www.autism.com/ Autism Speaks (partnered with CAN-Cure Autism Now):
http://www.autismspeaks.org/ Also in recent news actress/comedian Jenny McCarthy has published a book for parents that is getting a lot of attention:
http://www.talkaboutcuringautism.org/jenny/ Good luck with helping your friend…there is hope! p.s. you can also send me a private comment if you need further advice :)