answer:To paraphrase Groucho Marx on the topic: I could never be with a woman who had such low standards as to be attracted to me. I think that Groucho said “I would never join a club that would have me as a member,” so you see where that came from. All I can say is that it’s a good thing that I more or less enjoy my own cooking, because it looks like I’ll be eating a lot of that from now on. The woman that I do love and have loved for years seems not to care for me all that much beyond an arm’s length friendship, and she’s spoiled me for anyone else. I can’t get her out of my thoughts. All in all, and although it sucks ‘now’, it was better to have loved and lost, as Tennyson said. And I’m not altogether without hope. Ah… what was the question again?