Good ****, that is exactly the state my father and my family were in on December 22nd, 2002! As we realized that if he lived, his quality of life would be nonexistent, it became easier for each one of us to tell him it was okay. I know my Mom sat by his bed and said those words and I know it had to be the hardest thing she ever did. cak, I am sending you strength and courage for all your battles.