Why is there such an emphasis on couples hanging out together?

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I think it’s just a case of seeking out people who are similar to you. I’ve read that people who have children tend to drift away from their childless friends after awhile. Probably something similar to that. Also,there’s the whole ‘third wheel’ thing, like a couple + one friend? Sometimes can be awkward.

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