answer:The concept of ownership in romantic relationships is what, in my opinion, leads to conflict and cheating. I do not have possession of my wife. She is free to be who she is and do as she pleases. She can go out with whomever she wants, eat whatever she wants, dress however she wants, etc. In many relationships, people think they have the right to tell their s/o what they can and cannot do, even if it’s passively, as if they have some sort of power or ownership over the other. I want none of that in my relationship. And I think the fact that we do not see each other as possessions has alot to do with how great we are together.