Is butting out of a bad relationship enabling?

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I think it is also an element of people not being honest with themselves. If they get too caught up in the short-comings of the other people in their lives they can sacrifice and even forget about their own needs. The worst is when you start having expectations that the other person will be there for you and then they bail on you when the going gets tough…that really blows.

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