Is it appropriate to go to a top level manager in your company whom you admire and ask them to mentor you?

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I would say it depends a lot on how asutute your abilities are to read people. In and of itself, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. It is the various reactions of all the players, including your boss, you must consider. You have to understand, and be willing to accept, the possible fallout before making your final decision. If it’s worth it to you, then hell, yeah, I’d go for it!

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