What is one thing, that is possible to change, that you want to change, but your s/o doesn't want you to change?

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Well, she’s not my significant other, but I’d like to lose about a stone in weight, she says I look good as is & that she prefers robust, manly men. I cant help but think that robust is a euphemism for chubby though.

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