I'm really confused. I want to know if it's time to move on or should I hold on a little longer?

I'm really confused. I want to know if it's time to move on or should I hold on a little longer?
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Definitely move on. He physically beat you and cheats on you and lies to you and he takes advantage of you. I think you need to get as much space from him as possible. I know it’s not easy to let go of someone you love even if they are ruining you, but the more space you get from this person and time to recover the better you will feel and the more you will realize how hard he made your life and how much better off you are without a toxic, abusive person in your life. I really hope you can get away from that person. You’re going to feel a lot of mixed emotions and you will miss him at times, but you have to remember what your life was like with him. I hope you are safe and can find peace and happiness.
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